Good day.
We had a very interesting discussion on Deborah's Market
Square about divorce last week. The discussion will be summarized in 7 parts.
Please share your thoughts on any of the issues raised.
A sister shared about a twice divorced man who blamed his
mother and all the women in his life for all his woes. And the divorce
discussion started.
“What should the wife of the occultist who has been asked to
donate their ability to have children do?”
“How did she marry an occultist in the first place? Hmmmmmm.
When the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do? At every point in
our lives, we should ask God for guidance. Psalm 119:105”
“That's why I'm of
the opinion that we should have professional marriage counsellors not church
marriage counselor to help married people. My pastor was against divorce for so
long, but recently he shared a story and said he told the lady to leave the
marriage... A lot of church folks were shocked but you don't even want to
imagine what some women have to face behind closed doors”
“There is nothing God cannot still do, no matter how long
gone we are deep in trouble, HE is ever faithful and just. Not your pastor
alone. At times what we close to you as your skin go through behind closed
doors. For the fact that your man does not fornicate does not mean he does not
have a problem you are dealing with. And vice versa”
“Should divorce be encouraged in Marriage? Should a woman reconcile with a man who has
committed social crime against her, and he is still having extra marital
affair”
“As much as I would say...it shouldn't be. I feel whatever the case...it should be worked
on. However, in a case of abuse....walk away (not divorce) and settle from
outside...instead of staying in and dying before settlement.”
‘You need to see what
some men go through as well all in the name of marriage. They are stuck with
demons as wives”
“Na to pick race run
oh [Lady married to a cultist]...I have an aunty that divorced her hubby when
they got married and she saw a wardrobe full of jazz.. Na run she run biko. He
said he uses it to protect his business... If she can’t cope, she can take a
walk. lobatan.com
“I know women who
abuse their husbands. So it means its 80% men abusers and 20% women abusers too”
“Marriage in deceit
can lead to divorce....Yes”
Divorce Discussions Part 1
Divorce Discussions Part 2
Divorce Discussions Part 4
Divorce Discussions Part 5
Divorce Discussions Part 6
Divorce Discussions Part 7
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